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Friday, January 20, 2012

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Limited Time Only October Hostess Rewards Program


I love switching up my reward program to get my customers some of the newest best selling products Passion Parties has to offer! Host a Passion Party in the month of October and get the following gifts from me in addition to the free and discounted products you earn from your party sales! :)


Keep your original date: 52 Passion Positions - $13.50 Value!

15 Buying Guests: RT G-Spot Crème - $29.50 Value!

Two Party bookings: NEW Refreshing Bath & Shower Creme - $19.00 Value!

Four Party Bookings: Pure Instinct Roll On - $20.00 Value!

$1000 in Total Party Sales: Bunny Bliss - $50 Value!

Also I am offering a hostess only special on Pure Satisfaction for hosting a party on certain dates! Contact me today to book your show!

Erica Ardali
Passion Parties Team Leader
317-459-6945
IndyPassionLady@gmail.com

Friday, July 30, 2010

~ Passion Parties ~ Does this Business Really Work?

We all know friends or family members who started a little business for ‘side’ income or to follow a get rich quick scheme. Maybe they were talked into it by a friend or something they saw on an infomercial on TV. But those people (our friends and family) didn’t become success stories…they stopped…they quit. Those businesses just didn’t work! Or did they?

Most MLM businesses (if not all) DO WORK. So why did our friends give up? If they had stuck with it, they would have reached success, but what happened is they gave up too soon. They didn’t see success for themselves and for each small success they did reach – it took a huge amount of effort. So, why blame them?

ENTER…Passion Parties. What makes us different? Why should it work? Why should you become a success story? Well, we really are different…we really are easier… and we really do create success. Here are four reasons why:

#1 SEX SELLS
ALL MLM party plans have to sell their products, sell their parties and sell their business opportunity. For some party plans, these are ‘hard sells’. OUR products, hard to sell – no way! The sex (adult industry) produces more income than Hollywood, the sports industry and the music industry COMBINED! How many ‘other’ party plans can honestly say – their products sell themselves? But, in the “Passion” industry, they really do. Marketing companies continually use sex (sexy images) to entice consumers to buy their products. Well, guess what – we are sex! How many times do you hear a hostess say “my friends have been bugging me to have one of THESE parties for a long time”? How often are those friends yearning for her to host a Tupperware or Candle Party? Hostesses have those parties for the free stuff and they guilt their guests into coming and booking. Our parties are considered ‘parties’ first and ‘buying parties’ second. The subject SEX drives companies like Xandria, Victoria’s Secret, Fredericks of Hollywood and much of the Internet itself. We ARE the hottest industry!!

#2 PARTY PLAN
Our company is a party plan structure and ‘party plan’ is the easiest and most successful venue for an MLM Company. Why sell to one person when you can sell to 10 at one time? Your audience is having fun, feeling comfortable and encouraging each other to buy and often encouraging each other to go into the business. The referral system is also built-right-in. Your entire audience knows that it is expected for someone to carry on the fun and book another party. Lastly, because the parties are so much fun and so informative, people talk about them long after they are over – this means lots of free publicity for you!

#3 NO COMPETITION
In this business we have almost no competition. Our customers will typically not go into an adult bookstore – they are too embarrassed. Our customers want to see, taste and touch and they can’t do that over the Internet. Our customers want a caring relationship from their consultant and they won’t get that neither from the clerk at the adult store nor from the website of an adult company. ALL other party plans have to compete with places like Wal-Mart, Kmart, Craft Stores, Victoria’s Secret, etc for plastic containers, makeup, candles, crafts, clothing, etc… our products are not found in any department store! When it comes to “other” pleasure party plans….even they are NOT our competition. Most are smaller, cheaper organizations…the catalogs and products are generally low budget and never change. They rarely own their own private labels. We have a product and service that cannot compare with ANY other!

#4 PASSION PARTIES – THE COMPANY
Passion Parties is the Place to Be! We have the best-printed materials, the best products and variety, the only private label products, the best educational materials AND the best compensation plan! We have nearly 13,000 active consultants across the United States and Canada who collectively earn over $1 million dollars in bonuses and overrides each month (plus 40% at party discount). There are six Home Award Achievers, almost 100 Car Bonus Achievers and 34 Million Dollar Club Achievers! We are the first company (adult party planning) to have an international presence. We have been featured in the top newspapers, magazines and news stations all over the country – all with a clean and POSITIVE image! We have also achieved a 50% growth each year since 2001. We are a $65M debt free, privately held company. We are a solid, successful opportunity!

For more Information Contact your Passion Consultant
Erica Ardali
317-459-6945
IndyPassionLady@gmail.com
http://www.IndyPassionLady.com

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Explore the "Male G-Spot"

The prostate gland, also known as the male G-spot, and its role in sexual pleasure have long been ignored by Western civilization.But today, the male G-spot
is being given a new lease on life. The prostate is a small gland, about the size and shape of a quail’s egg. Nestled in the man’s pubic bone and surrounded by the pelvic muscles, the prostate gland will respond to pressure applied through the rectum. It may produce amazing orgasms when massaged correctly.
Prostate massage has been used for centuries for two purposes— intense sexual pleasure, and improving the health of the prostate gland. Using a lubricant, such as Slip ‘n Slide, combined with a prostate massage toy—the Onyx Adventure – is the most effective way to unleash the amorous possibilities of the male G-spot.
1. Cleanse the anal area and depending on what you use to find this magic button, cleanse your finger or toy.
2. The anal area must be relaxed and well lubricated. Use foreplay as a way to help your lover relax.
3. Once the anal area is relaxed and lubricated, reach down between his legs and insert either an index finger or the Onyx Adventure into his anus and press forward, in a firm motion. The prostate is located on the front part of the rectal wall.
4. Press gently. If your lover enjoys the sensation, press a little more firmly. Your partner might find pleasure in a “shunting” sensation, experienced by smooth, rapid insertion and removal of the finger or toy.
5. If you find your playmate doesn’t enjoy the sensation of prostate stimulation alone, try pairing it with genital massage or oral sex.
Some men experience crashing orgasms when their prostate gland is stimulated. Some men don’t enjoy the sensation at all, while others could take it or leave it. If
you are unsure about your lover’s feelings toward this type of sensation, try it! If you and your partner don’t like it, you don’t hae to do it again!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

The Importance of Intimacy Enhancers

One thing you never learned in sex education or from your mother is that intimacy enhancers are just as important to your sex life as beauty products are to your skin.

Think about your bathroom drawer or counter. How many bottles of
anti-aging products, skin lotions and toners do you have? Think about
your cosmetics case or bag. How many bronzers, blushes, lip sticks and
mascaras are in there?
Just like you use beauty enhancers to make you feel and look more
beautiful and confident, intimacy enhancers are also used to improve
sensuality and sexual confidence. And what are intimacy enhancers?
Like beauty products, there are many intimacy enhancers on the market
and they consist of six basic categories:
■ Genital Stimulants
■ G-spot Stimulants
■ Lubricants
■ Vaginal Tightening
■ Topical Delay for the Penis
■ Anal Desensitizing
Genital Stimulants – Products such as Ready to Go™ and Pure Satisfaction® are genital stimulants designed to inspire arousal. Pure Satisfaction is designed for both men and women and is also Passion Parties’ number one selling product and featured on the daytime medical show “The Doctors.” Why? Well, as Dr. Jennifer Berman, Director of Female Urology and Sexual Medicine at the Rodeo Drive Women’s
Health Center in Beverly Hills said, “Because it works.” Genital stimulants are applied to the genital area prior to foreplay in order to promote sexual response, stimulation and arousal. You may not be “in the mood” at first, but a genital stimulant will change that.
G-spot Stimulants – While genital stimulants can create excitement on the outer regions of the genitals, they are not designed for female internal stimulation. A G-spot stimulant, such as Passion Parties’ RomantaTherapy® G-Spot Crème, is designed to engorge the G-spot, making it easier to locate, stimulate and increase the likelihood for G-spot orgasm. Most women find it difficult to explore their G-spot and achieve orgasm. G-spot Crème resolves that problem. It’s Ph balanced
for a woman’s body.
Lubricants – It’s simple: wetter is better. Age, hormonal cycles, stress, pregnancy and other factors can all hinder a woman’s ability to create her own natural lubricant. Using a sexual lubricant during sex simply makes it more enjoyable and takes the pressure off both men and women.

Vaginal Tightening – Some women need assistance with increasing the snug feeling that
many men desire. A vaginal tightening gel such as Tighten Up™ can maintain tightness
of entry.

Topical Delay – Some men need assistance, too. A safe, topical cream such as Stay Hard helps men stay in control and keeps their erection lasting longer.

Anal Desensitizing – For couples who enjoy anal play, an anal desensitizing product like Topical Eaze can assist by making penetration smooth and pleasurable. It slightly desensitizes wherever it is applied making anal play more enjoyable.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Sex and The Summer Product Review

Passion Parties by Erica is proud to present the Sex and the Summer campaign. There are tons of sets and special buys that will truly turn any sweltering summer night into your ultimate night of passion. I have decided for today’s blog to publish a summer product review to go over the highlights of what the Sex and the Summer Campaign has to offer as well ass give you tips on how to incorporate these products into your intimate relationships.

This summer we are pleased to offer not one but two new Rabbit style adult toys. Both have different functions and offer unbelievable stimulation to your most intimate parts. As a theme for summer play all both are water resistant so feel free to experiment in the shower or Jacuzzi.

The Aqua Bunny: Rapture meets R & R. This dual action pleaser includes a smooth, jelly shaft and a clitoral tickler atop a silver bullet base. Three different vibration speeds cause the two to flutter simultaneously, bringing pleasure inside and out. One-touch button. Water resistant. 8 1/2” length, 1 1/2” diameter. Requires two AA batteries.
Features:
• Three speeds
• One-touch button
• Clitoral tickler attached to silver bullet
• Water resistant
• 1 ½” diameter
Benefits:
• Three speeds provide a more customized experience
• Easy to adjust intensity of vibrations
• Delivers intense clitoral stimulation, which many women need in addition to penetration
• Use in or out of the bath, shower or hot tub
• Provides extra girth for greater pleasure around vaginal opening
Companion Products:
• Passion Parties Toy Cleanser
• RT Revelation Lubricant
• RT Sensual Warming Lubricant
• Ultra Glide
Material: Thermal Plastic Elastomer (TPE)

The Lil’ Thumper: This powerful rabbit pleases with precision. Tip is angled just right for “G-spot-on” stimulation. Clitoral pleasure pointers operate in four variations for a customized climax. Water resistant. 8 1/2” length, 1 1/3” diameter. Requires three AAA batteries.
Features
• Three speeds of shaft vibration
• Four speeds of clitoral vibration with four variations
• Firm jelly material
• Pliable tip
• Water resistant
Benefits
• Separate vibration control of shaft and clitoral stimulator for personalized pleasure
• Allows firm pressure to be applied to vaginal walls and G-spot area
• Easier location of G-spot
• Delivers intense clitoral stimulation, which many women need in addition to penetration
• Use in or out of the bath, shower or hot tub
Companion Products
• Passion Parties Toy Cleanser
• RT Revelation Lubricant
• RT Sensual Warming Lubricant
• Ultra Glide
• RT G-spot Crème
• Inflatable Passion Pillow
Material: Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)


Car Pet

Road trip rapture awaits. Bunny bullet attached to 12V adapter plugs into your car, boat
or RV charger for active bunny ear action. No batteries necessary.
Features
• Bunny-shaped clitoral stimulator
• Embedded bullet
• 12V adapter
Benefits
• Never needs batteries
• Bunny pleasure on the road
• Use in your car, on your boat or while traveling in your RV
Companion Products
• Revelation™ Lubricant
• Ultra Glide
• Clean & Simple™ Adult Toy Cleanser
Material: Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE)


Glow Boy
Ecstasy illuminated. Suction-bottom attaches to any hard, smooth surface for handsfree
fun. Soft jelly material is molded to resemble the real thing. Flexibility allows easy
adjustment to any position. Shaft gets wider at the tip for full satisfaction. Glow-in-the Dark.
Water resistant. 6 ½” length, 1 ½” diameter.
Features
• 6-1/2” length, 1-1/2” diameter
• Suction cup attached to base
• Realistic shape and flexibility
• Wide tip
• Glow-in-the-dark vinyl sheath
• Water resistant
Benefits
• Lifelike feel, shape and size provide realistic experience
• Ability to meet your needs anywhere, anytime
• Works in any direction and accommodates many positions
• Provides extra stimulation to responsive areas
• Use in or out of the bath, shower or hot tub
Companion Products
• Passion Parties Toy Cleanser
• RT Revelation Lubricant
• Ultra Glide
Material: Rubber


Nibblers
Strawberry
Watermelon
Raspberry
Nibble-licious! Easy-to-apply lip and body balm stick is now available in three fruity flavors. Menthol ingredient provides a tingling sensation wherever it’s applied.
Features:
• Available in three fruity flavors
• Contains menthol
• Packaged in a convenient applicator tube
Benefits:
• Sensual flavor is extremely tasty to the “nibbler”
• Sensitizes the nipples in some women
• Moisturizes and plumps the nipple
• Dual usage as a lip or body balm
Companion Products:
• Tasty Temptation Massage Candle
• Dirty Dice/Glo Dice
• Passion Petals
Ingredients: Petrolatum, Paraffin, Cetyl Alcohol, Isopropyl Myristate, Flavor, Menthol, Saccharin,
Propylparaben
May contain: Red 6 Lake, Red 17/CI 26100, Violet 2/CI 60725

Ocean Mate
A porpoise with a purpose. Dolphin-shaped bullet sleeve and removable, seven-function
vibrating bullet. Tickling bill provides clitoral stimulation. Water resistant. Requires and
includes three watch batteries.
Features
• Dolphin-shaped bullet sleeve with tickling bill
• Waterproof, seven-function vibrating bullet
• Includes batteries
Benefits
• Take from bath to bed
• Compatible with water-based and silicone lubricants
• Small enough to tuck into purse

RomantaTherapy® Liquid Body Silk
Cool, instant freshness. Goes on like lotion. Dries like powder. 4.6 oz/135 ml.
Features:
• Dries like powder
• Light fragrance
Benefits:
• Easy, clean application
• Soothing scent creates a spa-like atmosphere
• Can be used by both men and women
Companion Products:
• RT Luxurious Bath and Shower Gel
• RT Salt Glow Body Scrub
• RT Soft & Silky Shaving Crème

Tap ‘n Go
White
Pink
Get ready, tap it and go! Innovative touch-activated vibrating bullet with five functions of
vibration, pulsation and escalation. Keep tapping to find your favorite mode. No buttons.
No switches. Just pure pleasure. Requires two AAA batteries.
Features
• Touch-activated vibrating bullet
• Five functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation
Benefits
• Very easy to use
• Revolutionary technology
• Easily customize your pleasure
Companion Products
• Revelation™ Lubricant
• Pleasure Safari
• Clean & Simple™ Adult Toy Cleanser
Material: Acrylonitrile Butadiene Styrene (ABS)


These are the new products in the campaign but some old favorites are back in awesome sets. View these and many more items on my website, book your party, or learn how to become a consultant – http://www.eardali.yourpassionconsultant.com



Thursday, June 24, 2010

Phthalates and Sex Toys

What are Phthalates?
Phthalates are chemicals (called plasticizers) that are used in plastics to make them soft and pliable. These chemicals are used in a variety of products that we
use every day including coatings for pharmaceutical medicines, medical devices, building materials, personal care products, cosmetics, packaging materials, printing inks and food wraps and packaging. In fact, most people use products that contain phthalates throughout their day, every day.

Are Phthalates Harmful?
There has been much debate as to whether phthalates are harmful and whether or not consumers should use sex toys that contain phthalates. This debate lead to the only government sponsored clinical study designed to research the question of whether
sex toys that contain phthalates are safe to use. The study found no conclusive scientific evidence that phthalates are harmful or pose any significant health
risks. Conducted by the Danish Environmental Protection Agency, the data showed that moderate to heavy use (up to one hour per day) is not associated with any significant health risk. Most consumers do not use these products for seven hours or more per week.

Like other products, sex toys get their softness and pliability from phthalates. NONE of the products that Passion Parties carries contain Phthaltes. In a press release issued on March 16th, 2010 Passion Parties stated and I quote: Passion Parties once again leads the sensual products industry, as the first and only company to have a 100 percent phthalate-free toy line. The organization made the announcement during its 16th annual convention, as part of its continued commitment to provide the latest innovations in sexual health and wellness. Passion Parties is North America’s leading in-home party-plan company specializing in sensual products and romance accessories.
“Health and safety are very important to Passion Parties and our consultants,” said Pat Davis, chief executive officer and company president. “We listened to our customers and found healthier products to help them explore their passion.”
This bold and responsible move was followed by removing dozens of products from our line up of pleasure products. Out with the old in with the new. Every single product Passion Parties by Erica carries is 100% Phthalate-Free!

Monday, June 14, 2010

The Rabbit - Not Just for Easter Baskets!

Ever since that special episode of HBO’s hit series “Sex and the City” in which Miranda introduces Carrie and Charlotte to the wonders of a rabbit vibrator,
these vibrators have become wildly popular. Today, rabbit vibrators are the best-selling vibrating sex toy on the market for women and there are over 100 varieties available, from big to small, skinny to fat,low-tech to high-tech. There is a rabbit vibrator to fit any woman’s sensual desires.
The term “rabbit vibrator” is synonymous with sex toys designed to stimulate both inner and outer sex organs at the same time. These particular toys are also referred to as “dual action” or “dual purpose” vibrators. The shaft is normally carved to resemble a penis while the rabbit attachment branches upward from the shaft to vibrate the clitoris.
While most rabbit vibrators look alike, there are always notable differences. The most gratifying rabbit vibrators, such as the Cosmo Bunny, also feature inner beads which rotate to massage the vagina, a pulsing and vibrating shaft, a multi-speed rabbit clitoral stimulator and a waterproof design – so you can take your rabbit vibrator into the shower or tub with you. The price of a rabbit vibrator mirrors
its capabilities. The lower the price of a rabbit vibrator, the less features included. As the saying goes, you get what you pay for.
Rabbit vibrators emerged from Japan where it was illegal to produce sex toys that resembled male genitalia, so clever craftsman created toys to look like cute, approachable animals. The practice continues to this day, and this style of vibrator has earned legions of loyal fans.
The animal vibrator you choose matters. Bunny ears are critical for
that ever important clitoral stimulation. An awful lot of bells and whistles in one sex toy may seem unnecessary, but consider this: approximately 70% of women to do
not orgasm with penetration alone. Studies show that 15%-20% of women have never experienced orgasm. With a rabbit vibrator, the guesswork is removed from sexual exploration, thanks to the dual action design, various speeds and intensities. You can customize your experience to find what works for you, and achieve orgasm
with minimal effort.
Here are some tips for enjoying your rabbit vibrator:
1. Wetter is better. Use lubricant when enjoying your rabbit
vibrator. You may use a water-based lubricant, such as
Revelation Lubricant, or a silicone-based lubricant, such as
Slip n’ Slide. But, if your rabbit vibrator is made of silicone,
use a water-based lubricant only.
2. Experiment with the controls. Vary the speeds, rotation and
intensity. Have fun.
3. Remove the batteries from the toy when not in use.
4. Clean the toy between each use with Clean & Simple Adult
Toy Cleanser.
5. Store separately in a plastic bag away from other toys.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Spicing It up in the Bedroom

It happens to us all. After a while, in any relationship, things go a little stale. As Human beings, most of us crave stability. We want the norm, little house, white picket fence, a husband, a few kids – the American Dream. –BORING! Sexual Boredom is very dangerous to any relationship. Amongst other thing sexual boredom can lead to low sex drive in both men and women.
Keeping things exciting in the bedroom can be tricky. Male partners can feel threatened by the introduction of new sexual techniques. They can also feel that they may not be performing at a high enough caliber to satisfy their partner. You know ladies sometimes we have to take it upon ourselves to bring the inner freak out. Below you’ll find some tips and techniques of different things to try.

• Explore erogenous zones – ears, elbow, nape of the neck etc.
• Give your partner a deep 10 second kiss.
• Kiss your partner from the nape of the neck down to the top of the buttocks- slowly.
• Roll the tip of your tongue from your partner’s knee up to the inner thigh.
• While performing oral sex try adding ice cubs or menthol cough drops.
• Play Dress up! Get all dressed up for a good old fashioned role play session- will you be a nurse, or a cheerleader, or a prostitute?
• Go through your Passion Parties catalog and pick things out together.
• Try Edible Body Pens. Draw on your body which spots you would like him to explore.
• Visit a local hotel for lunch hour tryst – for no reason at all.
• Call or text him dirty messages – if you need inspiration check out our Texxxt Messages Card set.
• Introduce toys in the bedroom. If your partner has an issue with this there are techniques to try.
• Make time for sex! We are all busy. Make time for your relationship.
• Take a picture of yourself in a lacy top and satin thong. Stick it is his briefcase or lunch bag.
• Leave a note that says you can wait for him to com home tonight.
• Write on the mirror with lipstick – “I WANT YOU KNOW!”


Try 1 or all of these things and have fun with it! Try spicing it up everyday!

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Sex Toys 101

Sex Toys. Sex toys can add to the fun & excitement of bedroom play. They offer a wide spectrum of possibilities. As your resident SEXpert I love sex toys! However I am aware not that everyone else is as devoted to the topic of sex toys. Some Men feel very threatened by sex toys. They often feel as if they are being replaced by a battery operated every ready penis. Others fear that their partner will become addicted to the toy, that she is more orgasmic with the toy than she is with him. A smart woman will educate her partner on what she likes, what she gets out of the toy, what it is that she likes, the sensations she adores. It is also helpful to incorporate the toys into your lovemaking, doing this will help to ease his discomfort with the topic of toys. If your partner feels any level of apprehension towards sex toys it is wise to begin your exploration with toys, start small and quiet. Bullet type toys are best for beginners. They provide ample stimulation and various levels of vibration. Bullets are sure to help you reach the climax you seek.
The history of sex toys is a lengthy one. Sex Toys have been unearthed in Pharaoh’s tombs, as well as in both Incan and Indian civilizations. They have been around for ages however not widely accepted in most societies. Again – “Nice Girls Don’t Do That!” There is a parallel however, not every culture from around the globe believes that the use of sex toys is normal or acceptable. It is important to know your partners cultural, personal. And religious views on the use of toys before introducing them into your bedroom activities.
Today many toys are made in Japan or China and feature both vaginal and clitoral stimulation, are made of silicone and have varied speeds, and other functions. When shopping for toys there are a few things one must consider- where it can be used, is waterproof, what type of cleanser is required, what is the power supply- does it require batteries- if so what type? Is it rechargeable, a what type of storage is required Knowing this will enable you to make an informed decision on your purchase and help you to protect your investment.
At Passion Parties we have 4 main categories of toys. Bullets, Passion Toys, Deluxe Toys, and G-Spot Toys. All toys are not created equal. I can not tell you which the best toy is. What is amazing to me might not be so great to you. Our bodies are different. Our sensitivity level could bee drastically different. I encourage you to host a Passion Party so that you can truly experience the toys and make an informed decision on which is best for you.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Bullets- Starter Toy or Standard Issue?

Welcome to toy Week! This Week we are going to celebrate adult toys by highlighting different types of toys. Today is all about the bullet! We will discuss many different types of Bullets that Passion Parties by Erica offers and how you can introduce them into your bedroom activities.
Often referred to as a starter toy, the Bullet Massager comes in many shapes and forms. The main purpose of the Bullet is to provide clitoral stimulation for women. These toys appeals to over 75% of women who require clitoral stimulation to elevate levels of pleasure to the point of orgasm. The Bullet is definitely a staple in any woman’s toy box.
The standard Bullet Massager offers low effort high impact orgasms. It is cost affective for the diva on a budget but does lack some practical functions. There is a chance for the wire to be yanked from the unit during an orgasmic frenzy. Use this toy to break in your spouse who might be reluctant to bringing adult toys in to the bedroom.
The next upgraded model is the Pretty in Pink Bullet. Not only is this toy powerful, with four different speeds to choose from, but it is visually appealing. Pink with an iridescent finish, ladies love it! This model does allow for the cord to come unplugged so yanking on the unit is no longer an issue. Also there is an optional Pineapple Attachment that features nubby bumps for extra textile stimulation. The controller of this toy is practical and easy to use, so there is not fumbling with dials while you are attempting to be intimate with your partner.
Pure Gold. The name says it all. This toy offers the best of both worlds, beauty and brawn. It features a gold finish and is adorned with a circle of rhinestones. Every diva likes a little bling! The toy feature 3 speeds and has pinpoint accuracy and is waterproof. Bonus! Water Play! Unlike many bullet toys this one actual resembles it’s namesake in shape.
The funniest new novelty in the bullet category would be the new Tongue Tickler. This toy is designed to enhance female pleasure during oral play. The Tongue Tickler is actually tongue shaped and has a soft tongue strap and is designed to be worn on your lovers tongue! This toy is very low in cost as it only offers a 40 minute life span.
The Blossom Bliss – a flower that will seriously make you bloom! This toy is waterproof; I actually keep mine in the shower and well, let’s say that those herbal essences commercials are a reality for me. I invite you to take this toy in the bathroom and some extra spice to your kinky shower sessions.
The New Rockin’ Rabbit. A bullet unlike any other Passion Parties by Erica offers! The toy is designed to inserted. The average bullet type toy is meant for clitoral stimulation only. It feature rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation while waves of vibrations send you rockin’!
These toys are both a practical starting point in your adult toy odyssey and a welcome addition to the already established romance tool kit. Again like always I invite you to play with your partner. While solo play can be enticing and a great way to beat the lonelies when they sneak up on you, butt couples play can be immensely gratifying for both parties. Communication is key in toy play. Tell him what you like, what feels good and what doesn’t. The effects can be mind shattering!

Monday, April 19, 2010

The G-Spot: Pleasure Central

The elusive G-spot. Everyone is looking for it. Unfortunately women do not come with a navigational system. Once found it can be the pinnacle of sexual satisfaction in women. There is no force like it. Many women do not believe they have a G-Spot or that the so called experts are correct that it is just a myth. Ladies let me just go on record to say – It is not a myth! Never give up your quest for the G-Spot.
Let’s talk logistics. The G-Spot is an area about 1 ½ inches- 2 inches inside the vagina on the inner wall. Translation: in the front- not deep down- and at the top. It is often missed entirely with intercourse, so for most women reaching the G-Spot is actually a separate encounter all together. There is an emotional connection often associated with reaching G-Spot Orgasm. The more comfortable with and committed a woman is to her partner the easier it will be for her to communicate her likes and dislikes as well to let go and enjoy the ride! Application of the G-Spot Crème offered by Passion Parties is also beneficial. The G-Spot Crème is actually your best friend when exploring the G-Spot. The Crème gives a tingling sensation and greater sensitivity in the G-Spot area.
There is a saying that I’ve talked about before, “Men are microwave, and Women are an oven.” Women need to be allowed to warm up. It is easier to find the G-spot once the woman is already very sexually aroused. This is where foreplay comes in. No fellas, we don’t just want foreplay to prove you care, many of us need it to get to the mind shattering finale. Communication is also a major factor here. Women, we have to be able to communicate to your partners what we want. Most men do not know enough about female anatomy to figure it out. At Passion Parties by Erica we say that every woman has an inner diva. Well Ladies – Let her out! Tell him this is what I want, need, and desire. If the relationship is a two way street he should be receptive.
Before G-spot play a few preparations should be made. The first would be to use the restroom. The sensation preceding a G-Spot Orgasm is the feeling that you have to urinate. So if your bladder is already empty you will know that your orgasm is coming and just let it go. I have talked to many women at almost every single party I have ever done that have actually stopped the whole process to go to the restroom. Don’t stop!
When a woman’s G-Spot is stimulated to the point of orgasm there is a great deal of fluid involved. This is referred to female ejaculation or the common term “squirting” (although it is not a squirt, in my opinion men squirt, women flood). This fluid is clear and sweet smelling and rest assured it is not urine. Now the amount is going to very buy the woman – from a trickle to a quart of liquid. Yes a quart. That being said this is not something you want to get into on your 1000 count Egyptian cotton sheets from your high end department store. There are specials tricks to keep your sheets and bed safe. Take a trash bag, cut it open down the side and spread it on the bed. Then place a big beach towel on top. It might be a good idea to adhere clothespins to the corners to keep it in place. This way the fluid will not soak the entire bed, the towel is easily laundered and the trash bag disposed of.
Sexual Positions are difficult. The G-Spot is normally missed entirely during intercourse. The best position is actually missionary with the woman’s hips elevated and her feet around the man’s shoulders. Now this position is not the most comfortable. For this reason the G-spot is normally found through either finger play or with the addition of G-Spot toys.
The manual or finger method is done by the woman lying flat on her back and the man inserting his fingers into her vagina- remember between 1 ½ to 2 inches in, no more. With his palm up to the ceiling, make the “come hither” motion with your fingers. The G-Spot tends to swell when stimulated. So if you feel a change in the area you know you hit the right spot.
The G-Spot toys – this is for some women a trial and error type of deal. My favorite is the Butterfly Bliss. It is wireless and controller free, activated by utilizing the push button control. All G-Spot toys are curved at the end to reach the G-Spot. Normal vibrators, although fantastic in their own respect, will most likely not stimulate the G-Spot. Experience the pleasure of introducing G-Spot toys into your toy box. Remember guys, toys are an enhancement not a replacement.
Now that you have general knowledge of the G-Spot why are you just sitting there! There is nothing like it. Enjoy your relationship and always push the envelope.