October Starts With An "O" For A Reason!

It’s National Orgasm Month, and there’s only one way to celebrate, but, some women find themselves unable to observe this gratifying month because they’ve never had an orgasm. To join in the fun, keep reading for all you need to know about the big O.
It’s National Orgasm Month, and there’s only one way to celebrate, but, some women find themselves unable to observe this gratifying month because they’ve never had
an orgasm. To join in the fun, keep reading for all you need to know about the big O.

Orgasm 101
rgasms are peaks of sexual excitement giving off intense, full-body waves of pleasure and relaxation. Fifty years ago, William Masters and Virginia Johnson
described four stages of the human sexual response cycle: arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution. Today, there’s some debate about the application of these stages to women as some women may not experience much of a resolution stage and may instead experience multiple orgasms without going through each stage all over again.
There’s also debate in regards to the types of female orgasms. In the past, experts categorized female orgasms as either clitoral or G-spot stimulated. However, an orgasm may also be felt in the labia, heart, skin, spine or even as a rush throughout the entire body. Because orgasms are as unique as the women who experience them, there’s no way to define what’s “normal.” The only thing all female orgasms have in
common is that they all involve contractions of the pelvic floor muscles. Sensation, duration and cause of the climax will vary from woman to woman; and through persistent practice and experimentation, every woman can become an expert on her own orgasms.
What Can You Do to Ensure You Achieve Orgasm?
1. RELAX. Enjoy the moment and don’t focus on having an orgasm.
2. COMMUNICATE. Let your lover know what feels good. When
your partner does something you enjoy, encourage your lover to
continue.
3. FANTASIZE. Let your imagination run wild. Some women find
that having a fantasy during lovemaking helps them to climax. The
moment you find yourself close to climaxing, try tightening and
relaxing your pelvic floor muscles to spark an orgasm.
What Can Partners Do?
1. COMPLIMENT. Think of ways to make your lover feel sexy and
adored.
2. BE PATIENT. Not just with your lover who is trying to achieve an
orgasm, but with yourself, too. If you climax before your lover does,
continue stimulating your partner by using sensual products, such as
lubrication and a vibrator, or performing oral sex.
3.REMEMBER THE CLITORIS. Most women need clitoral
stimulation in order to reach climax. The clitoris is just as important
to women as the penis is to men.
Multiple Orgasms
Now that you’re an expert on orgasm, spread the word.
The more women know about orgasms, the easier it is to have one! Don’t forget to check out the physiology of an orgasm in The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex.
As is the case with regular orgasms, there is no “right” way to have multiple orgasms. Essentially, a multi-orgasmic woman is able to achieve more than one orgasm during a session of love-making or self-pleasuring. Multiple orgasms may not be for every woman, and that’s normal. But, if you find yourself interested in finding out whether or not you can achieve and enjoy multiple orgasms, the best thing
to do is simply set aside some time to try, either alone or with a partner. After achieving one orgasm, try clitoral stimulation to reach a second climax.
Orgasms Have Health Benefits
• Relieve tension
• Burn calories
• Improve sleep
• Fight aging, by increasing the youth-promoting
hormone DHEA

Now go out there and Enjoy Each Other!!

10 Fun Sex Facts

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine and skin smooth.

2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.

3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner.

4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps, and you don’t need special shoes!

5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.

6. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater amounts of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!

7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. It is 10 times more effective than valium.

8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing plaque build-up.

9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain. Sorry, you can’t use “honey I have a headache” as an excuse anymore!

10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.

The Importance of Intimacy Enhancers

One thing you never learned in sex education or from your mother is that intimacy enhancers are just as important to your sex life as beauty products are to your skin.

Think about your bathroom drawer or counter. How many bottles of
anti-aging products, skin lotions and toners do you have? Think about
your cosmetics case or bag. How many bronzers, blushes, lip sticks and
mascaras are in there?
Just like you use beauty enhancers to make you feel and look more
beautiful and confident, intimacy enhancers are also used to improve
sensuality and sexual confidence. And what are intimacy enhancers?
Like beauty products, there are many intimacy enhancers on the market
and they consist of six basic categories:
■ Genital Stimulants
■ G-spot Stimulants
■ Lubricants
■ Vaginal Tightening
■ Topical Delay for the Penis
■ Anal Desensitizing
Genital Stimulants – Products such as Ready to Go™ and Pure Satisfaction® are genital stimulants designed to inspire arousal. Pure Satisfaction is designed for both men and women and is also Passion Parties’ number one selling product and featured on the daytime medical show “The Doctors.” Why? Well, as Dr. Jennifer Berman, Director of Female Urology and Sexual Medicine at the Rodeo Drive Women’s
Health Center in Beverly Hills said, “Because it works.” Genital stimulants are applied to the genital area prior to foreplay in order to promote sexual response, stimulation and arousal. You may not be “in the mood” at first, but a genital stimulant will change that.
G-spot Stimulants – While genital stimulants can create excitement on the outer regions of the genitals, they are not designed for female internal stimulation. A G-spot stimulant, such as Passion Parties’ RomantaTherapy® G-Spot Crème, is designed to engorge the G-spot, making it easier to locate, stimulate and increase the likelihood for G-spot orgasm. Most women find it difficult to explore their G-spot and achieve orgasm. G-spot Crème resolves that problem. It’s Ph balanced
for a woman’s body.
Lubricants – It’s simple: wetter is better. Age, hormonal cycles, stress, pregnancy and other factors can all hinder a woman’s ability to create her own natural lubricant. Using a sexual lubricant during sex simply makes it more enjoyable and takes the pressure off both men and women.

Vaginal Tightening – Some women need assistance with increasing the snug feeling that
many men desire. A vaginal tightening gel such as Tighten Up™ can maintain tightness
of entry.

Topical Delay – Some men need assistance, too. A safe, topical cream such as Stay Hard helps men stay in control and keeps their erection lasting longer.

Anal Desensitizing – For couples who enjoy anal play, an anal desensitizing product like Topical Eaze can assist by making penetration smooth and pleasurable. It slightly desensitizes wherever it is applied making anal play more enjoyable.

Talking to Your Kids About Sex

There is going to come a time when you’ll have to talk to your kids about sex. You may not have all the answers – I recommend you do some research on STD’s etc most public libraries carry tons of books on the subject.

Do not hand them a book to your kids and tell them to read it – try leaving it on the coffee table while your watching tv together – you guys can browse through it together and your then available to answer questions

Try going to the local health department- they have an awesome wealth of information. You gather pamphlets and other information about STD's Birth Control etc. They often have material designed for youth.

It is important to talk to your kids about STD’s and Birth Control. I know there is a growing idea, some of my friends have it. That discussing birth control with your kids is giving them permission for them to have sex. I like to think of it as nipping it in the bud. Do you want them to know or assume that the ever common myths about sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy are true. Also as I was a very rebellious teenager, They really don’t need your permission.

Peter Mayle wrote an amazing book called – What is Happening to My Body. It discusses puberty and explains what is going on during those very confusing pre-teen years.

It is important that good education starts at home. These are your kids, and ultimately, regardless of how Americans like to shrug the responsibility, there education lies with you.

I hope that some of these suggestions help you discuss sex with your children. Remember that that you ar doing your children a disservice by being afraid to have the hard conversations with them. I encourage to seek help when needed and make your self approachable to your kids. If they are afraid to ask you basic questions then why would they come to you with a major one. Oh, the joys of parenting!