National Masturbation Month

May in National Masturbation Month. Seriously, I didn’t just make that up. Masturbation is a taboo subject. It is considered to be a dirty thing. More often than not most women are still uncomfortable with talking about the subject of self-pleasure.
Masturbation is a private affair one has all by themselves. More men masturbate than women. It is a combination of the physical act of self-pleasure and the mental act developing and utilizing sexual fantasies. It is said to b impossible to reach a point of ecstasy while masturbating without the use off sexual fantasies. It is a perfectly normal to masturbate as well as extremely helpful to pleasure oneself.
Males may begin to masturbate at a very early age. This act take a turn around age 12 years old. At the onset of puberty they can ejaculate and the pleasure is magnified. Little Girls are more reluctant to masturbate than their male counterparts. It is often not until their late teens that they are able to masturbate and know what they are doing.
There is a double standard to masturbation, as with many other things. The phrase “Nice Girls Don’t Do That!” Comes into play again. Women who do are often shunned, or thought of as freaks, the town tramp. In reality most women reach their very first orgasm all alone. Bonus: women who masturbate are more likely to reach orgasm with their partner. This is because she knows her body. She knows what she likes. She can express her wishes to her lover, letting him know that where to touch her, what to do.
Men masturbate one way, Manual Stimulation. Women however have endless possibilities. There is of course is manual stimulation, but women also can use adult toys, showerheads, Jacuzzi spout, pillows….. The list goes on and on. I invite you to explore your body and develop your own sexual fantasies. Happy Touching!

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Add some Pizzaz to your Home Party with Themes!!!

Bored with Home Parties? Tired of the same old presentations, decorations, and food? Think THEMES! Summer is fast approaching and it is the perfect time for a home party! There are so many possibilities! Whether you choose to have Mexican Fiesta or Chocoholic Extravaganza your consultant is committed to creating an unforgettable experience for you and your friends.
The time involved in planning your themed party is really no different than that of a typical home party. Décor is important is creating the mood of the party. It is important to work with your party plan consultant so that she can plan according to your theme. This can bee discussed in your coaching appointment.
Themed invitations set the tone for your party, as the guests know what to expect at the party- there is nothing worse than showing up at Pajama Party in your work clothes! Your consultant should have access to invitation templates that will coincide with your party theme. These invitations are widely available or, with a little no-how, are easily produced using Microsoft Publisher or other comparable software programs.
For my themed parties I offer a drink or dessert recipe that complements the theme. This helps support the hostess in her party plans and ensures that the theme is seamless throughout the entire event. Food and drink work as a secondary prop for the event. While I do recommend that refreshments for home parties be kept as simple as possible, it is a nice gesture to offer food and drink to your guests. You do not have to offer a full meal, however Nachos at a Cinco De Mayo party just makes sense.
Your consultant can also offer product bundles and other specials that can correspond with your theme. When I do a Chocoholic Extravaganza theme I offer a discount on our White Chocolate Body Powder. Work with your consultant to see if there is a special promotion she can offer your guests to enhance the quality of your party experience.

What to Expect from your Home Party Experience

Hosting a home party can be a great way to get the girls together! You can catch up with old friends, make new ones, laugh and play games, all while shopping for some great products you can’t get anywhere else. Whether you’re working with a skin care consultant or a romance party consultant it is imperative that the hostess and the consultant are in agreement on basic expectations to insure a successful party experience.
It important that the hostess understand that she is the business partner of the consultant until her show has closed. The consultant trades free and discounted products in exchange for a time and place to sell her merchandise. The amount of free and discounted product she receives is determined by how much is sold at the party as well as bonuses for outside orders, party bookings, and consultant leads. The consultant’s livelihood depends on the hostess keeping her word that she will have X amount of people gathered to not only have a good time but make purchases from her. When booking any home party, read your hostess packet carefully in order to get a clear understanding of what you are expected to do as a hostess. In my home party business with Passion Parties I require my hostesses to provide me with a table, have 10 divas in attendance, 5 outside orders, and 2 party bookings. If this is done before the party it almost always guaranteed to be a successful show! In my business I require a guest list with, names addresses, and telephone numbers. These are used to mail out invitations, and offer reminder calls – in this busy world most people need a reminder!
As you hostess you have just as much of a right to have clear expectations of the consultant you are working with. The consultant must be excited about your show and put in a lot of effort to help you plan your party. This includes but is not limited to, offerings specials to your guests, mailing out invitations to your guest, completing reminder calls and providing you with an unforgettable party experience. The hostess can expect that the home party will be entertaining. There is a ratio at play – The home party experience should be 70% party and 30% products. This is not merely a sales presentation. This is a chance for you to reconnect with your friends and family while enjoying some of your favorite products. The consultant should take into account that the hostess has worked hard on her end to insure the success of her show, and earn the maximum free and discount product available given the party plan companies hostess compensation plan.
The guidelines and expectations will very by individual consultant and party plan company. It is essential that there is a clear understanding of what the expectations are early in the business arrangement. I recommend a face to face hostess coaching appointment so there are no misunderstandings and everyone is on the same page. The rewards of a successful show are clearly seen on the faces of your guests as they are going to truly enjoy this experience.

Bullets- Starter Toy or Standard Issue?

Welcome to toy Week! This Week we are going to celebrate adult toys by highlighting different types of toys. Today is all about the bullet! We will discuss many different types of Bullets that Passion Parties by Erica offers and how you can introduce them into your bedroom activities.
Often referred to as a starter toy, the Bullet Massager comes in many shapes and forms. The main purpose of the Bullet is to provide clitoral stimulation for women. These toys appeals to over 75% of women who require clitoral stimulation to elevate levels of pleasure to the point of orgasm. The Bullet is definitely a staple in any woman’s toy box.
The standard Bullet Massager offers low effort high impact orgasms. It is cost affective for the diva on a budget but does lack some practical functions. There is a chance for the wire to be yanked from the unit during an orgasmic frenzy. Use this toy to break in your spouse who might be reluctant to bringing adult toys in to the bedroom.
The next upgraded model is the Pretty in Pink Bullet. Not only is this toy powerful, with four different speeds to choose from, but it is visually appealing. Pink with an iridescent finish, ladies love it! This model does allow for the cord to come unplugged so yanking on the unit is no longer an issue. Also there is an optional Pineapple Attachment that features nubby bumps for extra textile stimulation. The controller of this toy is practical and easy to use, so there is not fumbling with dials while you are attempting to be intimate with your partner.
Pure Gold. The name says it all. This toy offers the best of both worlds, beauty and brawn. It features a gold finish and is adorned with a circle of rhinestones. Every diva likes a little bling! The toy feature 3 speeds and has pinpoint accuracy and is waterproof. Bonus! Water Play! Unlike many bullet toys this one actual resembles it’s namesake in shape.
The funniest new novelty in the bullet category would be the new Tongue Tickler. This toy is designed to enhance female pleasure during oral play. The Tongue Tickler is actually tongue shaped and has a soft tongue strap and is designed to be worn on your lovers tongue! This toy is very low in cost as it only offers a 40 minute life span.
The Blossom Bliss – a flower that will seriously make you bloom! This toy is waterproof; I actually keep mine in the shower and well, let’s say that those herbal essences commercials are a reality for me. I invite you to take this toy in the bathroom and some extra spice to your kinky shower sessions.
The New Rockin’ Rabbit. A bullet unlike any other Passion Parties by Erica offers! The toy is designed to inserted. The average bullet type toy is meant for clitoral stimulation only. It feature rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation while waves of vibrations send you rockin’!
These toys are both a practical starting point in your adult toy odyssey and a welcome addition to the already established romance tool kit. Again like always I invite you to play with your partner. While solo play can be enticing and a great way to beat the lonelies when they sneak up on you, butt couples play can be immensely gratifying for both parties. Communication is key in toy play. Tell him what you like, what feels good and what doesn’t. The effects can be mind shattering!

Spicing it up!
One constant complaint I get from my customers is that they seem to have lost that old spark. Now for most people this is very common. We all go through a dry spell now and again.
Techniques very by couple. I am going to list some things to try.
Take your love making from day to night. Increase excitement by sending text messages or emails to your lover. If dirty talk is foreign to you try our Texxt message cards for ideas.
Slow things down. Like I've said before it takes a good 20 minutes for a woman to become highly aroused. Give her a sensual massage. Not only does it get her to height of arousal, it relaxes her completely, which increases her chances of reaching a vaginal or G-Spot orgasm.
Introduce adult toys. This can be anything from a bullet to a deluxe vibrator. Not only do toys loosen her up and really get her juices flowing the act of using a toy on her can be very visually appealing to men.
Introduce edible creams and lotions into your bedroom tool kit. Not only are they pretty tasty they promote touch and play. This can increase anticipation of the main event. Last tip of the day imagine the possibilities. Explore each other, play together, communicate to each other what you want and desire. Make time for lovemaking. We live in a hectic world with tons of obligations. You are also obligated to your lover. Keep it interesting and the rewards will blow you away. Literally.

The G-Spot: Pleasure Central

The elusive G-spot. Everyone is looking for it. Unfortunately women do not come with a navigational system. Once found it can be the pinnacle of sexual satisfaction in women. There is no force like it. Many women do not believe they have a G-Spot or that the so called experts are correct that it is just a myth. Ladies let me just go on record to say – It is not a myth! Never give up your quest for the G-Spot.
Let’s talk logistics. The G-Spot is an area about 1 ½ inches- 2 inches inside the vagina on the inner wall. Translation: in the front- not deep down- and at the top. It is often missed entirely with intercourse, so for most women reaching the G-Spot is actually a separate encounter all together. There is an emotional connection often associated with reaching G-Spot Orgasm. The more comfortable with and committed a woman is to her partner the easier it will be for her to communicate her likes and dislikes as well to let go and enjoy the ride! Application of the G-Spot Crème offered by Passion Parties is also beneficial. The G-Spot Crème is actually your best friend when exploring the G-Spot. The Crème gives a tingling sensation and greater sensitivity in the G-Spot area.
There is a saying that I’ve talked about before, “Men are microwave, and Women are an oven.” Women need to be allowed to warm up. It is easier to find the G-spot once the woman is already very sexually aroused. This is where foreplay comes in. No fellas, we don’t just want foreplay to prove you care, many of us need it to get to the mind shattering finale. Communication is also a major factor here. Women, we have to be able to communicate to your partners what we want. Most men do not know enough about female anatomy to figure it out. At Passion Parties by Erica we say that every woman has an inner diva. Well Ladies – Let her out! Tell him this is what I want, need, and desire. If the relationship is a two way street he should be receptive.
Before G-spot play a few preparations should be made. The first would be to use the restroom. The sensation preceding a G-Spot Orgasm is the feeling that you have to urinate. So if your bladder is already empty you will know that your orgasm is coming and just let it go. I have talked to many women at almost every single party I have ever done that have actually stopped the whole process to go to the restroom. Don’t stop!
When a woman’s G-Spot is stimulated to the point of orgasm there is a great deal of fluid involved. This is referred to female ejaculation or the common term “squirting” (although it is not a squirt, in my opinion men squirt, women flood). This fluid is clear and sweet smelling and rest assured it is not urine. Now the amount is going to very buy the woman – from a trickle to a quart of liquid. Yes a quart. That being said this is not something you want to get into on your 1000 count Egyptian cotton sheets from your high end department store. There are specials tricks to keep your sheets and bed safe. Take a trash bag, cut it open down the side and spread it on the bed. Then place a big beach towel on top. It might be a good idea to adhere clothespins to the corners to keep it in place. This way the fluid will not soak the entire bed, the towel is easily laundered and the trash bag disposed of.
Sexual Positions are difficult. The G-Spot is normally missed entirely during intercourse. The best position is actually missionary with the woman’s hips elevated and her feet around the man’s shoulders. Now this position is not the most comfortable. For this reason the G-spot is normally found through either finger play or with the addition of G-Spot toys.
The manual or finger method is done by the woman lying flat on her back and the man inserting his fingers into her vagina- remember between 1 ½ to 2 inches in, no more. With his palm up to the ceiling, make the “come hither” motion with your fingers. The G-Spot tends to swell when stimulated. So if you feel a change in the area you know you hit the right spot.
The G-Spot toys – this is for some women a trial and error type of deal. My favorite is the Butterfly Bliss. It is wireless and controller free, activated by utilizing the push button control. All G-Spot toys are curved at the end to reach the G-Spot. Normal vibrators, although fantastic in their own respect, will most likely not stimulate the G-Spot. Experience the pleasure of introducing G-Spot toys into your toy box. Remember guys, toys are an enhancement not a replacement.
Now that you have general knowledge of the G-Spot why are you just sitting there! There is nothing like it. Enjoy your relationship and always push the envelope.