Romance 101

What is the number 1 complaint from women in committed relationships? Not enough intimacy. The second half of the year is the worst for intimate encounters. The end of summer brings Back To School excitement and hectic schedules. This is followed by the Holiday Season that brings high stress, tight budgets, and more often than not flared tempers.
So how does one feel sexy after all of that!? The need for intimacy does not diminish; rather it is placed on the back burner of our minds while we tackle more meaningful tasks. But what is more important than strengthening the intimate connection in your relationship? Below you’ll find some tips and tricks you can utilize to enhance the romance in your love life.


• A night of great sex starts in the morning. Leave your lover notes around the house, in his briefcase etc. I recommend the 52 Naughty IOU’s.
• Leave him text messages describing the evening you have in store for him.
• Plan out your evening and keep your toy box stocked! Try something new and exciting to add some extra spice!
• When the kids are away the folks will play! Use every opportunity to spice up your relationship.
• Enjoy your partner and don’t skimp on the foreplay!
• Try the 30 Day Sex Challenge. You have to do it. No matter what. For 30 days. Check out the challenge at - http://www.relevantchurch.com/30dayblog.html
• Communicate about your needs and desires.

I hope these tips help aid you in quest for a more meaningful fulfilling relationship with your partner. For info on the latest Passion Parties products or for information on how you can stock your toy box for free or at a discount, check out my website at http://www.IndyPassionLady.com

Back to School Blog Tour

Passion Parties by Erica is pleased to be a part of the Back to School Blog Tour sponsored by Living My Moment and the Work at Home Woman. This week our blog postings will focus on keeping the romance flaming hot while going through the day to day functions that back to school time brings. PTA Meetings, Parent Teacher Confrences, Homework, games, practice....... It's enough to make you pass out! We'll coer simple things you can do eeryday to keep the sparks alive and increase the intimacy and communication in your love life!

Passion Pointers

very Passion Diva can use a few tips to escape the daily grind and add spice to a relationship. Each month, Passion Parties will post Passion Pointers to help you ignite your passion. Below are just a few ways to release your Passion Diva and escape the tensions of your day. Go at your own pace, but get the fire extinguisher ready with a few hot ideas for a steamy night.

PUT THE PASSION IN YOUR DAY FROM SUNRISE TO SUNSET.
For a Sexy Night, Start Foreplay in the Morning. Blend sensual stimulation into you and your partner’s daily activities. “…look at sex as a part of your entire day and not just as the thirty to ninety minutes that comes in at the end” says Passion Parties President Pat Davis in her book, The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex.
Start the Morning of Your Sexy Soiree by Getting Enough Sunlight.Recent studies have proven soaking up sunlight can boost sex drive and increase testosterone, a hormone that naturally occurs in women and elevates during arousal. By getting your daily dose of vitamin D from natural light, you’ll have higher levels of testosterone and a stronger libido.http://fitlode.com/2010/05/10/sunlight-can-boost-testosterone-and-libido/
Get Creative with Seductive Messages. Throughout the day send your sweetheart sexy text messages to get his mind wondering what’s to come later.
Cool Things Down to Heat Him Up. Keep things cool while you and your beau are getting hot in the sheets. Try stuffing a set of clean sheets and theInflatable Passion Pillow in a bag and place in your fridge. The cool caress of the fabric against your skin can add another dimension of sensuality. Let the sheets chill for a few hours (maybe while you’re making & eating dinner). After dinner, make your bed, grab your Dirty Dice and let the games begin.
Feed Your Fantasies. Begin the evening with aphrodisiac ecstasy. Grab some gourmet recipes from The New Inter Courses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook and tantalize your taste buds. WebMD.com says many foods known for their aphrodisiac appeals are also loaded with vitamins! So dig in! Try some oysters on the half shell, they are drenched with dopamine and zinc and are sure to put your mind and body in the mood. Don’t forget the wine. The Mayo Clinic says drinking a glass of red wine (in moderation) is full of antioxidants and other heart healthy benefits.
Turn on the Mood Music or Create Your Own Lyrics. Get into the mood with some sexy tunes from your MP3. Write a sensual love poem for your Romeo and read it to him in candle light.
Clean Up to Get Dirty. Share the shower with your lover and lather up withGreen Tea RomantaTherapy Luxurious Bath & Shower Gel massaging each other from head to toe. What you do next is up to you. ;-)
There are lots more Passion Pointers, feel free to try your own. Remember, Pat says, when “…you take responsibility for your pleasure, your pleasure will pay you back”.

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What Does That Do? - G-spot Creme

Have you always wanted a G-spot orgasm and never had one?
Passion Parties’ new exclusive G-Spot Crème makes searching and finding
this elusive additional orgasm easier and more enjoyable. The rich ingredients
interact with the G-spot to promote a higher awareness of sexual sensitivity,
enabling greater sexual pleasure. By generously applying to the tip of a finger or at
the end of a G-spot sensual toy and gently rubbing on the G-spot, women can explore
the ecstasy alone or with a partner. Do you frequently enjoy G-spot orgasms and want to heighten your pleasure? Women who already experience G-spot orgasms enjoy the faster and even more heightened pleasure now with G-Spot
Crème. Formulated with just the right balance of ingredients to influence a woman’s sexual response, G-Spot Crème is pH balanced, water soluble and condom friendly. G-Spot Crème was designed for women by women to instill a positive level
of confident sexual awareness, while providing the internal stimulation their bodies crave.
Our G-spot Creme was featured on the Television Program - The Doctors. According to Dr. Lisa Masterson - The G-SPot creme "Causes tingling and more sensitivity in the G-Spot area."
Active Ingredients:
• Arginine – a basic amino acid, which studies report, plays a role in conditions involving blood vessel dilation.
When applied, the body converts this amino acid to nitric oxide, which is the most powerful agent known to dilate and
engorge blood vessels. Arginine has been reported to be an effective sexual enhancer in women as it plumps the G-spot
area, making it easier to locate the G-spot for better stimulation and heightened pleasure. Tests have shown improvement
to increased libido, vaginal pulse, sensation and all around greater satisfaction from intimate relations.
• Methyl Nicotinate – stimulates sensory receptors and causes the blood vessels to widen thereby increasing blood
flow. Application produces a feeling of pleasing warmth and a red glow, as in a blush on one’s cheeks. (Her G-spot will
blush with pleasure!)
• Mentha Viridis (Spearmint) Leaf Extract – adds a refreshing cool tingle, to allow product to produce
excitement along with the warming action of the methyl nicotinate. Provides a naturally fresh aroma.
Benefits:• Promotes feminine sexual arousal and pleasure
• Assists women in achieving greater sexual satisfaction
• Helps promote the ultimate ecstasy of a G-spot orgasm
• Water-soluble, greaseless and non-staining
• pH balanced, vagina-friendly formula
• Condom-compatible ingredients
What are G-spot sensual products?
The first G-spot sensual product you should try is Passion Parties’ exclusive G-spot Crème. This unique enhancer produces a stimulating effect to inspire sensual excitement in the G-spot. The rich ingredients interact with your G-spot to promote a higher awareness ofsexual sensitivity, enabling greater sexual pleasure.
In addition to the G-Spot Crème, you should also consider using a sensual toy designed specifically for G-spot stimulation. The Velvet Curve and the Butterfly Bliss are specially curved for G-spot arousal and enjoyment. Explore G-spot ecstasy by generously adding some G-Spot Crème onto the end of the Velvet G or Bunny G in order to increase your awareness of your G-spot and intensify sensitivity.
Just for Summer geet the G-Spot Creme FREE with the purchase of Pure Satisfatcion Unisex Enhancement Gel and the best selling couples toy- the We-Vibe II. Or you can pair the G-Spot Creme with the Velvet Curve and save $15! Contact your Passion Consultant for deatils!

Spicing It up in the Bedroom

It happens to us all. After a while, in any relationship, things go a little stale. As Human beings, most of us crave stability. We want the norm, little house, white picket fence, a husband, a few kids – the American Dream. –BORING! Sexual Boredom is very dangerous to any relationship. Amongst other thing sexual boredom can lead to low sex drive in both men and women.
Keeping things exciting in the bedroom can be tricky. Male partners can feel threatened by the introduction of new sexual techniques. They can also feel that they may not be performing at a high enough caliber to satisfy their partner. You know ladies sometimes we have to take it upon ourselves to bring the inner freak out. Below you’ll find some tips and techniques of different things to try.

• Explore erogenous zones – ears, elbow, nape of the neck etc.
• Give your partner a deep 10 second kiss.
• Kiss your partner from the nape of the neck down to the top of the buttocks- slowly.
• Roll the tip of your tongue from your partner’s knee up to the inner thigh.
• While performing oral sex try adding ice cubs or menthol cough drops.
• Play Dress up! Get all dressed up for a good old fashioned role play session- will you be a nurse, or a cheerleader, or a prostitute?
• Go through your Passion Parties catalog and pick things out together.
• Try Edible Body Pens. Draw on your body which spots you would like him to explore.
• Visit a local hotel for lunch hour tryst – for no reason at all.
• Call or text him dirty messages – if you need inspiration check out our Texxxt Messages Card set.
• Introduce toys in the bedroom. If your partner has an issue with this there are techniques to try.
• Make time for sex! We are all busy. Make time for your relationship.
• Take a picture of yourself in a lacy top and satin thong. Stick it is his briefcase or lunch bag.
• Leave a note that says you can wait for him to com home tonight.
• Write on the mirror with lipstick – “I WANT YOU KNOW!”


Try 1 or all of these things and have fun with it! Try spicing it up everyday!

Sex Toys 101

Sex Toys. Sex toys can add to the fun & excitement of bedroom play. They offer a wide spectrum of possibilities. As your resident SEXpert I love sex toys! However I am aware not that everyone else is as devoted to the topic of sex toys. Some Men feel very threatened by sex toys. They often feel as if they are being replaced by a battery operated every ready penis. Others fear that their partner will become addicted to the toy, that she is more orgasmic with the toy than she is with him. A smart woman will educate her partner on what she likes, what she gets out of the toy, what it is that she likes, the sensations she adores. It is also helpful to incorporate the toys into your lovemaking, doing this will help to ease his discomfort with the topic of toys. If your partner feels any level of apprehension towards sex toys it is wise to begin your exploration with toys, start small and quiet. Bullet type toys are best for beginners. They provide ample stimulation and various levels of vibration. Bullets are sure to help you reach the climax you seek.
The history of sex toys is a lengthy one. Sex Toys have been unearthed in Pharaoh’s tombs, as well as in both Incan and Indian civilizations. They have been around for ages however not widely accepted in most societies. Again – “Nice Girls Don’t Do That!” There is a parallel however, not every culture from around the globe believes that the use of sex toys is normal or acceptable. It is important to know your partners cultural, personal. And religious views on the use of toys before introducing them into your bedroom activities.
Today many toys are made in Japan or China and feature both vaginal and clitoral stimulation, are made of silicone and have varied speeds, and other functions. When shopping for toys there are a few things one must consider- where it can be used, is waterproof, what type of cleanser is required, what is the power supply- does it require batteries- if so what type? Is it rechargeable, a what type of storage is required Knowing this will enable you to make an informed decision on your purchase and help you to protect your investment.
At Passion Parties we have 4 main categories of toys. Bullets, Passion Toys, Deluxe Toys, and G-Spot Toys. All toys are not created equal. I can not tell you which the best toy is. What is amazing to me might not be so great to you. Our bodies are different. Our sensitivity level could bee drastically different. I encourage you to host a Passion Party so that you can truly experience the toys and make an informed decision on which is best for you.

The G-Spot: Pleasure Central

The elusive G-spot. Everyone is looking for it. Unfortunately women do not come with a navigational system. Once found it can be the pinnacle of sexual satisfaction in women. There is no force like it. Many women do not believe they have a G-Spot or that the so called experts are correct that it is just a myth. Ladies let me just go on record to say – It is not a myth! Never give up your quest for the G-Spot.
Let’s talk logistics. The G-Spot is an area about 1 ½ inches- 2 inches inside the vagina on the inner wall. Translation: in the front- not deep down- and at the top. It is often missed entirely with intercourse, so for most women reaching the G-Spot is actually a separate encounter all together. There is an emotional connection often associated with reaching G-Spot Orgasm. The more comfortable with and committed a woman is to her partner the easier it will be for her to communicate her likes and dislikes as well to let go and enjoy the ride! Application of the G-Spot Crème offered by Passion Parties is also beneficial. The G-Spot Crème is actually your best friend when exploring the G-Spot. The Crème gives a tingling sensation and greater sensitivity in the G-Spot area.
There is a saying that I’ve talked about before, “Men are microwave, and Women are an oven.” Women need to be allowed to warm up. It is easier to find the G-spot once the woman is already very sexually aroused. This is where foreplay comes in. No fellas, we don’t just want foreplay to prove you care, many of us need it to get to the mind shattering finale. Communication is also a major factor here. Women, we have to be able to communicate to your partners what we want. Most men do not know enough about female anatomy to figure it out. At Passion Parties by Erica we say that every woman has an inner diva. Well Ladies – Let her out! Tell him this is what I want, need, and desire. If the relationship is a two way street he should be receptive.
Before G-spot play a few preparations should be made. The first would be to use the restroom. The sensation preceding a G-Spot Orgasm is the feeling that you have to urinate. So if your bladder is already empty you will know that your orgasm is coming and just let it go. I have talked to many women at almost every single party I have ever done that have actually stopped the whole process to go to the restroom. Don’t stop!
When a woman’s G-Spot is stimulated to the point of orgasm there is a great deal of fluid involved. This is referred to female ejaculation or the common term “squirting” (although it is not a squirt, in my opinion men squirt, women flood). This fluid is clear and sweet smelling and rest assured it is not urine. Now the amount is going to very buy the woman – from a trickle to a quart of liquid. Yes a quart. That being said this is not something you want to get into on your 1000 count Egyptian cotton sheets from your high end department store. There are specials tricks to keep your sheets and bed safe. Take a trash bag, cut it open down the side and spread it on the bed. Then place a big beach towel on top. It might be a good idea to adhere clothespins to the corners to keep it in place. This way the fluid will not soak the entire bed, the towel is easily laundered and the trash bag disposed of.
Sexual Positions are difficult. The G-Spot is normally missed entirely during intercourse. The best position is actually missionary with the woman’s hips elevated and her feet around the man’s shoulders. Now this position is not the most comfortable. For this reason the G-spot is normally found through either finger play or with the addition of G-Spot toys.
The manual or finger method is done by the woman lying flat on her back and the man inserting his fingers into her vagina- remember between 1 ½ to 2 inches in, no more. With his palm up to the ceiling, make the “come hither” motion with your fingers. The G-Spot tends to swell when stimulated. So if you feel a change in the area you know you hit the right spot.
The G-Spot toys – this is for some women a trial and error type of deal. My favorite is the Butterfly Bliss. It is wireless and controller free, activated by utilizing the push button control. All G-Spot toys are curved at the end to reach the G-Spot. Normal vibrators, although fantastic in their own respect, will most likely not stimulate the G-Spot. Experience the pleasure of introducing G-Spot toys into your toy box. Remember guys, toys are an enhancement not a replacement.
Now that you have general knowledge of the G-Spot why are you just sitting there! There is nothing like it. Enjoy your relationship and always push the envelope.

Romance - Where is it?

I remember when I was a little girl and I dreamed of love. I could not wait to be in love. It was my goal there was nothing better than that. No other dram more important than to e loved and cared for. As I grew older I began to realize that there is a significant between fantasy love and the real deal.
It occurred to me what I was calling love was in essence romance. Romance was what I was looking for the entire time.It is a never ending quest as most men do not get what women crave. We crave romance, our brains are hard wired to desire it. You can call it being a gentleman, a real man, or whatever you like. Point is most women want to e treated like a queen and when we do not feel as such we begin to question the foundation of our relationship. "What do I mean to You?" or "Do you love me?" These questions are not asked to annoy you, but rather there is something going on in brains that make us doubt your feeling or truest intentions in the relationship.
Now it goes without saying that every woman is different - what might be romantic to me might not be to the next lady. So I am going to speak from my own heart and invite you to have this conversation with your partner - What is your thought on romance, what is romantic to you. What am I not doing that I could do or what should I increase my efforts in. Remember most women tend to think and react from the heart.
I enjoy my man's attention. Nothing is more special than one on one time. I don't care if it's at home watching a movie, taking a walk in the park as long as I have his undivided attention. Like a lot of women I have my own insecurities and to know that I am the only girl in the world as far as he is concerned is mind blowing, and almost erotic.
Protector Mode- I love a man that can defend me. Not that expect him to fight over me or anything like that, but just the fact that he can if he needed to. I am attracted to power like a lot of ladies out there - e.g. Bill Clinton's Sex Appeal. He's not the most attractive man in the world but he carries a strong sexual energy that makes girls swoon.
Provider Mode- Nothing says I love you more than giving up what you have to lay at the feet of the woman you love. Now one has to be careful of the gold digger, that type of woman is a disgrace in my opinion, but that is not what I mean here. I mean a man who is willing to give everything he has to you so that you don't have to go without something. Me being the independent woman I am I prefer to make my own money but it is very attractive to me when a man wants to give to me. I mean that much to him, that's sexy.
Touching without the intention of having sex. I remember the first time I got a massage from a guy. He laid it all out, oils, candles, the whole nine yards. It was the most sensual, romantic gesture I have ever experienced in my entire life. I was sure that there was something behind it. He wants something. But no, I had a rough day at work and that was his way of melting my stress and showing that he cared. Kudos my man. Mission was accomplished.
Sex- Now when engaging a woman in sex remember this phrase- Men are a microwave, women are an oven- she has got to preheat. Did you know it takes the average woman a good 20 minutes for her brain and body to sync, for her to become fully aroused. Slow it down cowboy! Give her a massage, play with her body, explore every nook and cranny of her, she is a rare gift not to ignored or abused but marveled over. Showing her this type of attention also increases her chances of reaching orgasm.
So these are a few tips according to my own personal point of view. As always I recommend opening up those lines of communication, talk to her, find out what she likes, what she wants, and how you can cater to her mind, body, and heart. Nothing is more romantic than that.