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Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

The Importance of Intimacy Enhancers

One thing you never learned in sex education or from your mother is that intimacy enhancers are just as important to your sex life as beauty products are to your skin.

Think about your bathroom drawer or counter. How many bottles of
anti-aging products, skin lotions and toners do you have? Think about
your cosmetics case or bag. How many bronzers, blushes, lip sticks and
mascaras are in there?
Just like you use beauty enhancers to make you feel and look more
beautiful and confident, intimacy enhancers are also used to improve
sensuality and sexual confidence. And what are intimacy enhancers?
Like beauty products, there are many intimacy enhancers on the market
and they consist of six basic categories:
■ Genital Stimulants
■ G-spot Stimulants
■ Lubricants
■ Vaginal Tightening
■ Topical Delay for the Penis
■ Anal Desensitizing
Genital Stimulants – Products such as Ready to Go™ and Pure Satisfaction® are genital stimulants designed to inspire arousal. Pure Satisfaction is designed for both men and women and is also Passion Parties’ number one selling product and featured on the daytime medical show “The Doctors.” Why? Well, as Dr. Jennifer Berman, Director of Female Urology and Sexual Medicine at the Rodeo Drive Women’s
Health Center in Beverly Hills said, “Because it works.” Genital stimulants are applied to the genital area prior to foreplay in order to promote sexual response, stimulation and arousal. You may not be “in the mood” at first, but a genital stimulant will change that.
G-spot Stimulants – While genital stimulants can create excitement on the outer regions of the genitals, they are not designed for female internal stimulation. A G-spot stimulant, such as Passion Parties’ RomantaTherapy® G-Spot Crème, is designed to engorge the G-spot, making it easier to locate, stimulate and increase the likelihood for G-spot orgasm. Most women find it difficult to explore their G-spot and achieve orgasm. G-spot Crème resolves that problem. It’s Ph balanced
for a woman’s body.
Lubricants – It’s simple: wetter is better. Age, hormonal cycles, stress, pregnancy and other factors can all hinder a woman’s ability to create her own natural lubricant. Using a sexual lubricant during sex simply makes it more enjoyable and takes the pressure off both men and women.

Vaginal Tightening – Some women need assistance with increasing the snug feeling that
many men desire. A vaginal tightening gel such as Tighten Up™ can maintain tightness
of entry.

Topical Delay – Some men need assistance, too. A safe, topical cream such as Stay Hard helps men stay in control and keeps their erection lasting longer.

Anal Desensitizing – For couples who enjoy anal play, an anal desensitizing product like Topical Eaze can assist by making penetration smooth and pleasurable. It slightly desensitizes wherever it is applied making anal play more enjoyable.

Friday, June 25, 2010

What Does That Do? Gigi-Style

You may be wondering… Who is Gigi and how can this fun toy help my relationship? Gigi will be your partner’s favorite companion — next to you, of course.
Gigi is Passion Parties’ exclusively designed top-selling passion toy. It’s a super-stretchy masturbation sleeve that’s modeled after a real vagina. Gigi is fully reversible for easy cleaning and is lined internally with pleasure ribbing. Made of Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE) which warms to the touch for a realistic experience for him.
So how can Gigi help your relationship? Listed below are the three most popular ways this top man’s toy can become a couple’s toy for the both of you.

1. The Ménage a Trois
Gigi isn’t just for his solo fun – enjoy during oral sex on him. Make sure the
sleeve is well lubricated and fits him properly. Continue to move the sleeve
in slow and steady up-and-down motions until he’s ready to climax. Then pull Gigi up all the way over the erect penis, creating a vacuum effect, and his ejaculation will be “swallowed” by Gigi. This allows you to “go all the way” using Gigi. First, start out lubricating Gigi and his shaft with a small amount of an flavored lubricant like Embrace. Slowly slide the Gigi sleeve– fits as snugly as a vagina - onto his erect penis so that it completely rests against the base of his shaft, leaving the head exposed. Keep this in mind - Gigi can also “swallow” for you. As he gets closer to climax, ensure that the head is completely engulfed by Gigi so your partner gets every last bit of necessary stimulation.

2. Gigi: Your Personal Bumper Guard
Another option is to use the Gigi sleeve as a buffer during vaginal or anal
intercourse.
The first thing you do is cut Gigi to a desirable “buffer” size. For example, if your partner’s penis is nine inches long from base to tip and you’re only comfortable accommodating six inches, cut the Gigi into a 3” portion. With lubricant, slide the mini-Gigi over his shaft so it rests at the base of his penis. You can then have sex as you normally would, and Gigi prevents the additional length of his penis from entering your vagina or anus. If a condom is worn, Gigi goes on after the condom. With this method, you can relax knowing he’s not penetrating too deeply and he still gets the full coverage experience. Tip: For anal sex, use long lasting Slip ‘n Slide or Ultra Glide Gel Lubricant not just inside Gigi, but as your lubricant of choice for any type of anal penetration.

3. The Other Side of Gigi
Gigi is a great toy that can be used to simulate anal sex and it’s an experience both of you can share together. Gigi is very flexible and can be completely reversed. When in this inside out state, the opening on the opposite end is actually smaller and tighter, just like an anus. Make sure the inside, opening and his penis are well-lubricated, insert his shaft into the reversed Gigi and enjoy simulated anal sex.

So there you have it, three ways Gigi can enhance your relationship with your partner. It would be a good idea to have twins, that is, have two Gigis on hand for adventurous playtimes. One for his personal, private use and one you can resize and use as a couple. Don’t forget the edible lubricant for oral sex and the silicone lubricant for anal play. And, as always, the Clean & Simple™ Toy Cleanser for when playtime is over.

Friday, June 18, 2010

What Does That Do? - G-spot Creme

Have you always wanted a G-spot orgasm and never had one?
Passion Parties’ new exclusive G-Spot Crème makes searching and finding
this elusive additional orgasm easier and more enjoyable. The rich ingredients
interact with the G-spot to promote a higher awareness of sexual sensitivity,
enabling greater sexual pleasure. By generously applying to the tip of a finger or at
the end of a G-spot sensual toy and gently rubbing on the G-spot, women can explore
the ecstasy alone or with a partner. Do you frequently enjoy G-spot orgasms and want to heighten your pleasure? Women who already experience G-spot orgasms enjoy the faster and even more heightened pleasure now with G-Spot
Crème. Formulated with just the right balance of ingredients to influence a woman’s sexual response, G-Spot Crème is pH balanced, water soluble and condom friendly. G-Spot Crème was designed for women by women to instill a positive level
of confident sexual awareness, while providing the internal stimulation their bodies crave.
Our G-spot Creme was featured on the Television Program - The Doctors. According to Dr. Lisa Masterson - The G-SPot creme "Causes tingling and more sensitivity in the G-Spot area."
Active Ingredients:
• Arginine – a basic amino acid, which studies report, plays a role in conditions involving blood vessel dilation.
When applied, the body converts this amino acid to nitric oxide, which is the most powerful agent known to dilate and
engorge blood vessels. Arginine has been reported to be an effective sexual enhancer in women as it plumps the G-spot
area, making it easier to locate the G-spot for better stimulation and heightened pleasure. Tests have shown improvement
to increased libido, vaginal pulse, sensation and all around greater satisfaction from intimate relations.
• Methyl Nicotinate – stimulates sensory receptors and causes the blood vessels to widen thereby increasing blood
flow. Application produces a feeling of pleasing warmth and a red glow, as in a blush on one’s cheeks. (Her G-spot will
blush with pleasure!)
• Mentha Viridis (Spearmint) Leaf Extract – adds a refreshing cool tingle, to allow product to produce
excitement along with the warming action of the methyl nicotinate. Provides a naturally fresh aroma.
Benefits:• Promotes feminine sexual arousal and pleasure
• Assists women in achieving greater sexual satisfaction
• Helps promote the ultimate ecstasy of a G-spot orgasm
• Water-soluble, greaseless and non-staining
• pH balanced, vagina-friendly formula
• Condom-compatible ingredients
What are G-spot sensual products?
The first G-spot sensual product you should try is Passion Parties’ exclusive G-spot Crème. This unique enhancer produces a stimulating effect to inspire sensual excitement in the G-spot. The rich ingredients interact with your G-spot to promote a higher awareness ofsexual sensitivity, enabling greater sexual pleasure.
In addition to the G-Spot Crème, you should also consider using a sensual toy designed specifically for G-spot stimulation. The Velvet Curve and the Butterfly Bliss are specially curved for G-spot arousal and enjoyment. Explore G-spot ecstasy by generously adding some G-Spot Crème onto the end of the Velvet G or Bunny G in order to increase your awareness of your G-spot and intensify sensitivity.
Just for Summer geet the G-Spot Creme FREE with the purchase of Pure Satisfatcion Unisex Enhancement Gel and the best selling couples toy- the We-Vibe II. Or you can pair the G-Spot Creme with the Velvet Curve and save $15! Contact your Passion Consultant for deatils!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Bullets- Starter Toy or Standard Issue?

Welcome to toy Week! This Week we are going to celebrate adult toys by highlighting different types of toys. Today is all about the bullet! We will discuss many different types of Bullets that Passion Parties by Erica offers and how you can introduce them into your bedroom activities.
Often referred to as a starter toy, the Bullet Massager comes in many shapes and forms. The main purpose of the Bullet is to provide clitoral stimulation for women. These toys appeals to over 75% of women who require clitoral stimulation to elevate levels of pleasure to the point of orgasm. The Bullet is definitely a staple in any woman’s toy box.
The standard Bullet Massager offers low effort high impact orgasms. It is cost affective for the diva on a budget but does lack some practical functions. There is a chance for the wire to be yanked from the unit during an orgasmic frenzy. Use this toy to break in your spouse who might be reluctant to bringing adult toys in to the bedroom.
The next upgraded model is the Pretty in Pink Bullet. Not only is this toy powerful, with four different speeds to choose from, but it is visually appealing. Pink with an iridescent finish, ladies love it! This model does allow for the cord to come unplugged so yanking on the unit is no longer an issue. Also there is an optional Pineapple Attachment that features nubby bumps for extra textile stimulation. The controller of this toy is practical and easy to use, so there is not fumbling with dials while you are attempting to be intimate with your partner.
Pure Gold. The name says it all. This toy offers the best of both worlds, beauty and brawn. It features a gold finish and is adorned with a circle of rhinestones. Every diva likes a little bling! The toy feature 3 speeds and has pinpoint accuracy and is waterproof. Bonus! Water Play! Unlike many bullet toys this one actual resembles it’s namesake in shape.
The funniest new novelty in the bullet category would be the new Tongue Tickler. This toy is designed to enhance female pleasure during oral play. The Tongue Tickler is actually tongue shaped and has a soft tongue strap and is designed to be worn on your lovers tongue! This toy is very low in cost as it only offers a 40 minute life span.
The Blossom Bliss – a flower that will seriously make you bloom! This toy is waterproof; I actually keep mine in the shower and well, let’s say that those herbal essences commercials are a reality for me. I invite you to take this toy in the bathroom and some extra spice to your kinky shower sessions.
The New Rockin’ Rabbit. A bullet unlike any other Passion Parties by Erica offers! The toy is designed to inserted. The average bullet type toy is meant for clitoral stimulation only. It feature rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation while waves of vibrations send you rockin’!
These toys are both a practical starting point in your adult toy odyssey and a welcome addition to the already established romance tool kit. Again like always I invite you to play with your partner. While solo play can be enticing and a great way to beat the lonelies when they sneak up on you, butt couples play can be immensely gratifying for both parties. Communication is key in toy play. Tell him what you like, what feels good and what doesn’t. The effects can be mind shattering!

Monday, April 19, 2010

The G-Spot: Pleasure Central

The elusive G-spot. Everyone is looking for it. Unfortunately women do not come with a navigational system. Once found it can be the pinnacle of sexual satisfaction in women. There is no force like it. Many women do not believe they have a G-Spot or that the so called experts are correct that it is just a myth. Ladies let me just go on record to say – It is not a myth! Never give up your quest for the G-Spot.
Let’s talk logistics. The G-Spot is an area about 1 ½ inches- 2 inches inside the vagina on the inner wall. Translation: in the front- not deep down- and at the top. It is often missed entirely with intercourse, so for most women reaching the G-Spot is actually a separate encounter all together. There is an emotional connection often associated with reaching G-Spot Orgasm. The more comfortable with and committed a woman is to her partner the easier it will be for her to communicate her likes and dislikes as well to let go and enjoy the ride! Application of the G-Spot Crème offered by Passion Parties is also beneficial. The G-Spot Crème is actually your best friend when exploring the G-Spot. The Crème gives a tingling sensation and greater sensitivity in the G-Spot area.
There is a saying that I’ve talked about before, “Men are microwave, and Women are an oven.” Women need to be allowed to warm up. It is easier to find the G-spot once the woman is already very sexually aroused. This is where foreplay comes in. No fellas, we don’t just want foreplay to prove you care, many of us need it to get to the mind shattering finale. Communication is also a major factor here. Women, we have to be able to communicate to your partners what we want. Most men do not know enough about female anatomy to figure it out. At Passion Parties by Erica we say that every woman has an inner diva. Well Ladies – Let her out! Tell him this is what I want, need, and desire. If the relationship is a two way street he should be receptive.
Before G-spot play a few preparations should be made. The first would be to use the restroom. The sensation preceding a G-Spot Orgasm is the feeling that you have to urinate. So if your bladder is already empty you will know that your orgasm is coming and just let it go. I have talked to many women at almost every single party I have ever done that have actually stopped the whole process to go to the restroom. Don’t stop!
When a woman’s G-Spot is stimulated to the point of orgasm there is a great deal of fluid involved. This is referred to female ejaculation or the common term “squirting” (although it is not a squirt, in my opinion men squirt, women flood). This fluid is clear and sweet smelling and rest assured it is not urine. Now the amount is going to very buy the woman – from a trickle to a quart of liquid. Yes a quart. That being said this is not something you want to get into on your 1000 count Egyptian cotton sheets from your high end department store. There are specials tricks to keep your sheets and bed safe. Take a trash bag, cut it open down the side and spread it on the bed. Then place a big beach towel on top. It might be a good idea to adhere clothespins to the corners to keep it in place. This way the fluid will not soak the entire bed, the towel is easily laundered and the trash bag disposed of.
Sexual Positions are difficult. The G-Spot is normally missed entirely during intercourse. The best position is actually missionary with the woman’s hips elevated and her feet around the man’s shoulders. Now this position is not the most comfortable. For this reason the G-spot is normally found through either finger play or with the addition of G-Spot toys.
The manual or finger method is done by the woman lying flat on her back and the man inserting his fingers into her vagina- remember between 1 ½ to 2 inches in, no more. With his palm up to the ceiling, make the “come hither” motion with your fingers. The G-Spot tends to swell when stimulated. So if you feel a change in the area you know you hit the right spot.
The G-Spot toys – this is for some women a trial and error type of deal. My favorite is the Butterfly Bliss. It is wireless and controller free, activated by utilizing the push button control. All G-Spot toys are curved at the end to reach the G-Spot. Normal vibrators, although fantastic in their own respect, will most likely not stimulate the G-Spot. Experience the pleasure of introducing G-Spot toys into your toy box. Remember guys, toys are an enhancement not a replacement.
Now that you have general knowledge of the G-Spot why are you just sitting there! There is nothing like it. Enjoy your relationship and always push the envelope.