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Thursday, August 26, 2010

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Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Would You Kiss and Tell?

Karrine Steffans. Her name has become synonymous with slurs such as “Whore”, “Snitch”, and “Gold-Digger”. Today I am not going to condone or condemn her chosen lifestyle but to rather start a dialog on whether the old “Don’t Kiss and Tell” still holds true.
From a feminist perspective men have been kissing and telling for years. However there is a double standard here that once a woman does the same she is conducting herself in the most heinous manner possible, and is ridiculed by both her peers and the opposite sex. Is this fair? Well –rude awakening for the guys- women talk! We talk to one another, usually our most trusted friends –our sisters so to speak. But please believe that when there is an encounter that we deem as newsworthy it is most likely going to be shared in one form or another.
I do however understand the backlash that Diary of a Video Vixen caused. They were angry. They were angry that there secrets were out. That the private seedy lie they lead separate from their families was exposed. It was put in print, bound, and sold to millions nationwide. But my question is who is at fault her. My grandmother once said, like many other grandmothers in the black community have said, what is done in the dark comes to the light. So there is not escaping your past people. Once it is done it can not be undone. So why do we despise this woman, who was not married, who was unattached and free, for telling her story. For exposing her past and profiting from that we are completely shocked and appalled –yet her book sold MILLIONS of copies so despite how enraged we may be, we still bought into the machine.
Aside from Karrine there has been countless tell a books, describing sexual tryst and intimate encounters with numerous celebrities. However, these books stand out because they expose the dark under belly of Hip Hop. In the Black Community, there are few things one can be called that are worse than a single 6 letter word – Snitch. So in a way that is what she did according to the culture of hip-hop. But as a woman I can tell you I have had several guys profess their conquest over me, some accurate, some a complete and total fabrication – yet this is not considered snitching. Perhaps because I am a woman, perhaps because I do not hold a definite social standing in the community. However if the role was reversed I wonder what the outcome would be. Would there be an outcry if I slept with a married man and wrote a blog about it? Would I lose everything I stand for, or would I be like a man and poke my chest out and pat myself on the back for a job well done.
I’m curious what you all think about this topic. Share your comments below –the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Using Media to Inspire Romance

Keeping the fires burning in a relationship can be difficult. Sometimes what started out as a blazing inferno can all but fizzle out completely. As women it is our very nature to place others needs before our own. Passion Parties believes that every woman has an inner diva. We pride ourselves in teaching women tips, techniques, and tricks, through tastefully done home parties, to utilize in their own relationship to fully empower them in the bedroom.
When it comes to spicing it up in the bedroom inspiration can come in many forms. We get inspiration from books, such as the Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex, Complete Guide to Sexual Positions, or the widely popular Sadie Allison Books series. But we also gain inspiration from media- books, television shows, and movies.
True Blood is an amazing series on HBO. The love affair between Sookie and Bill is a powerfully passionate one. They have given us ideas on taking lovemaking out of the bedroom and pretty much doing it any and everywhere – I do not however recommend you bury your partner alive, have him claw his way out just so that you can make love in a cemetery though. Sookie and Bill have given us new positions to try as well. There is even a scene in Season 3 of the Character Eric and his new dancer involving restraints. This can be humanly done by use of the Love Swing!
Another HBO Show Hung- the story of a male prostitute can give you ideas to utilize on role reversal. Where the woman is in charge and the man has to do any and everything she says. How fun! It also brings to mention my absolute favorite type of role playing the Prostitute game. Basically you get dressed up for a night of “work” as a lady of the evening and your partner has to pick you up. Now to be safe please don’t stand out on the street corner as you may be mistaken for the real thing and be arrested.
One of my customers- we’ll just called her Susan, who lives in Orlando, FL sent me this note
- I get ideas from everywhere! Sometimes I’ll see something on TV and have to try it out! Like on Keeping up with the Kardashians – Khloe’s New husband Lamar was going to be on the road playing for the Lakers for a while a Khloe attempted to make him a hot little DVD to watch and think of her. That’s incredibly sexy!


Go out there and let inspiration hit you!

Monday, August 9, 2010

Hot Summer Nights

August is “Romance Awareness Month.” It’s also one of the hottest, most humid times
of the year. What’s a Passion Diva to do?! Get creative! Read on for some amorous ways to cool-off while heating up the romance.

Slip ‘n Slide on the Slip ‘n Slide
Double up on the slip ‘n slide fun with two favorites by the same name. Slip ‘n Slide
lubricant is perfect for water foreplay. Rub a bit on, and then drag your lover to the classic Slip ‘n Slide (yes, the one you slid on as a kid). Fool around… slipping and sliding.
(Beware of knee burns and nosy neighbors). Don’t forget to apply more lubrication when you’re ready to take it to the bedroom.

Sensory Ice Massage
Freeze your set of Ben-Wa Balls or Pleasure Pearls. Then, roll them around your
partner’s back for an incredibly refreshing and pleasurable massage. Don’t forget to apply your Passion Massage Lotion, after sticking it in the fridge for an hour or two. For a solo experience, use your cooled kegel exercisers for an invigorating PC muscle work-out.

Summer Peep Show
For the ultimate cool down (and hot tease), give your lover a summer blockbuster he or she will never forget—A Wet T-shirt Striptease. The big finale? You… au natural!

Make his or her wildest fantasy-come-true by using the Private Dancer Pole Kit to show-off your moves.

Frisky Fridge Foreplay
Refrigerate a few of your favorite flavored treats, like Mint Tasty Tease, Watermelon
Fireworks and Edible Body Pens. Later, invite your lover to fool around in front of the
open refrigerator. Take out the treats, and incorporate a little whip cream and chocolate syrup if you’d like (do not spill into your private areas). Finger paint your partner before licking it off.

Cleanliness is Sexiness
This is ideal before or after sex. Dim the lights, and turn on soft, romantic music. Run the shower, setting it at a temperature between cool to lukewarm. Step inside. Let the water run down your bodies. Share a long, passionate kiss. Lather up with Green Tea RomantaTherapy® Luxurious Bath & Shower Gel, and massage one another from
head to toe. Try one of the shower recipes on page 188 and 189 of “The Passion Parties
Guide to Great Sex.”

Chilled Sheets
Stuff your freshly cleaned sheets and Inflatable Passion Pillow into a bag and place in the refrigerator. Let them chill for about two to three hours. Place on bed. Next, remove all clothing and grab your Dirty Dice. Jump in bed and follow the instructions on the dice.

All month I'll be giving you new tips, tricks, and ttechniques to enhance the romance! Stick with us!